i was thinking alot of things...for our relationship..=) and i remembered...
...few years back..my mum used to tell me...that love itself is not enough!.. ..it's not enough...even if you love him, he loves you.
there must be MONEY in between too.
so u see why a lot of "used to be happy"married couples finally divorced. they quarreled...and one of the problems surely is MONEY. even if life was blissful..but when there is no money in the house and we can't pay our bills, etc.....wouldnt we get so stressedddd?...
YET, we shouldn't be CRAZY for money...and worship them as our GOD..
there is a saying..which i'm sure most of u have heard it..
" Money is not everything, but everything needs money"
TRUE,...
i was thinking...
when we get married..we will need to pay our expenses..such as, bills, kids expenses... or..car loan, house loan..in indonesia, car is a necessary transporttttt....and HOUSE???....who doesn't wnna have their own house...except if u want to rent for the rest of ur life!...hah!...
for me, NO!..i don't wanna RENT for the rest of my life..but i want to BUY ONE!...
so see...getting married it's not that easyyyyy~~~ =(
i was thinking alot of things...for our relationship..=) and i remembered...
...few years back..my mum used to tell me...that love itself is not enough!.. ..it's not enough...even if you love him, he loves you.
there must be MONEY in between too.
so u see why a lot of "used to be happy"married couples finally divorced. they quarreled...and one of the problems surely is MONEY. even if life was blissful..but when there is no money in the house and we can't pay our bills, etc.....wouldnt we get so stressedddd?...
YET, we shouldn't be CRAZY for money...and worship them as our GOD..
there is a saying..which i'm sure most of u have heard it..
" Money is not everything, but everything needs money"
TRUE,...
i was thinking...
when we get married..we will need to pay our expenses..such as, bills, kids expenses... or..car loan, house loan..in indonesia, car is a necessary transporttttt....and HOUSE???....who doesn't wnna have their own house...except if u want to rent for the rest of ur life!...hah!...
for me, NO!..i don't wanna RENT for the rest of my life..but i want to BUY ONE!...
so see...getting married it's not that easyyyyy~~~ =(
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